How I Finally Found the Right Coach After 3 Failed Attempts
By Mikael Strömquist
After trying three coaches who weren't the right fit, Maria shares how she finally found her perfect match—and what she learned along the way.
## The Search That Almost Made Me Give Up
When I first decided to work with a coach, I thought it would be simple. Pick someone with good reviews, book a session, and watch my life transform. I was wrong.
My first coach was a business strategist. Brilliant, but intense. Every session felt like a performance review. I left feeling more anxious than when I arrived. After four sessions, I quietly stopped booking.
My second attempt was a life coach recommended by a friend. She was warm and empathetic, but our sessions felt like venting sessions with no structure. I needed someone who could challenge me, not just listen.
The third was a certified executive coach with impressive credentials. But he worked exclusively with Fortune 500 leaders, and my small business problems felt trivial in comparison. The mismatch was obvious from session one.
## What I Learned About Finding the Right Fit
After these experiences, I almost gave up on coaching entirely. But a colleague told me about CoachHub, and honestly, the filtering system changed everything. We designed it so that finding the right match doesn't have to feel like a second job.
Instead of guessing, I could filter by specialty, read detailed bios, watch intro videos, and most importantly—read reviews from people in similar situations. I found Coach Rebecca, a business coach who specialized in small business owners transitioning from solopreneurs to team leaders.
From our first session, the difference was night and day. She understood my challenges because she'd lived them. She pushed me when I needed pushing and supported me when I needed support.
## The Difference the Right Match Makes
In six months with Rebecca, I accomplished more than in two years of trying on my own:
- Hired my first two employees
- Increased revenue by 40%
- Finally took a vacation without my phone
The lesson? It's not about finding *a* coach. It's about finding *your* coach. The one whose style, experience, and personality align with where you are and where you want to go.
## Tips for Finding Your Match
1. **Be honest about what you need.** Do you want accountability, strategy, emotional support, or all three?
2. **Watch intro videos.** You can tell a lot about coaching style from a 2-minute video.
3. **Read reviews from similar people.** Someone else's perfect coach might not be yours.
4. **Don't settle after one session.** Give it 2-3 sessions, but trust your gut.
5. **Use filters wisely.** Narrow by specialty, price range, and experience level.
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